I can’t believe where we are together. We are working together for a better place for you. Life is about you and one else; the problem is no one has probably ever said that. You do as you have been told. Yes, change it, be different. What is really going on for you? Write one thing that is changing or changed, and think how can I continue to make this better, stronger and work for me. Claire Moody is our head coach at Target Training, and you can read more about her here.  She delivers training on all coaching and numerous training the trainer courses.